The more we consider ourselves, the more we notice that we’re not as happy as we need to be. This isn’t just a thing, it’s a state of being.
We are not as happy as we need to be, and it’s not just because we are depressed. A large factor in our mood swings are the ways we treat others. When we feel good about ourselves, we tend to treat others well. When we feel bad about ourselves, we tend to treat others poorly. For instance, if our happiness is tied to our ability to make others happy, we’ll tend to be more generous with each other.
Thats not to say that we have to be miserable. Its just as if we arent happy and we arent being good for our selves. Its just as if we arent helping our selves. Its just as if we arent helping our selves.
But the fact is, we have a choice, and it is a choice that we have to make. It is a choice that we have to make whether we are happy or not. Or, for example, if we are having a really bad day, but we can still remember that it is our choice to treat others like shit for our happiness, then maybe its our choice to treat others like shit for our happiness. That is a choice. That is a choice. That is a choice.
I am guilty of this too. I wish I would be able to make that choice every time I see a friend or co-worker getting treated like shit. Its not because I want to be a shitty person, its because I want to be as shit as possible.
I don’t think we’re meant to be the best or the brightest, but we are meant to be the most shit of us. It’s a weird thing, but I think it’s what makes us human. No one really understands this, but we all get to choose our shittyness. Even if we choose to screw up, we don’t have to change who we are for it to be okay.
I think this is the biggest misconception of all. We assume that our actions are always right. If you’ve ever seen someone getting in a car accident, you know that your actions are not always right. They don’t always make you safe, they don’t always make you happy, they don’t always save your life. You are only responsible for what you can control. You don’t have a choice to be the most shit of you.
This is why it is so important to choose your battles well. When you are choosing battles in life, you have to choose your battles wisely. But then again, you have to pick your battles in life wisely too.
I believe that there are certain people who are at greater risk of injury or death than others. You don’t have to be the one who gets killed, you just have to be the one who chooses to be the most shit of you. If you are going to be the most shit of you, you have to be the most self-aware.
There are two types of people in this world: Those who know their limits and those who don’t. If you are going to be the most shit of you, then you have to be both. You also have to be able to recognize where you are in life and where you are in your own life.